
19 Jun The Art of Seeing
by Kalika Yap
It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see.
— Henry David Thoreau
Every entrepreneur’s journey is filled with moments of growth, expansion, and unknowns.
With each new challenge comes the opportunity to meet life with fresh eyes and an open heart.
The most powerful shifts often happen not because circumstances change, but because we learn to see differently.
This is the Art of Seeing.
Two people can look at the same challenge and see completely different stories.
- One sees a failure. The other, a gift in disguise.
- One feels closed in. The other sees a nudge toward a new direction.
- One sees competition. The other sees connection.
What you see is a reflection of the lens you wear. And that lens can be softened and reshaped—through presence, through practice, and through the grace of mindfulness. This is the heart of the Art of Seeing.
Mindfulness: A Return to Clarity

After two years of devoted study and practice, I recently completed the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program (MMTCP) under the soulful mentorship of Jack Kornfield and Tara Brach. This transformative journey was offered through the Awareness Training Institute in collaboration with Sounds True and the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley.
Mindfulness is the art of coming home—to the breath, to the body, to this one precious moment. And for the entrepreneur, it becomes a compass. It helps us:’
- Listen before we leap.
- Respond with kindness instead of urgency.
- See our inner world with honesty and love.
- Lead from a grounded, heart-centered space.
This mindful awareness is part of the Art of Seeing — to witness what is truly present with softness, wisdom, and care.
A Practice to Shift Your Perspective
Let this be your personal practice in the Art of Seeing when you feel stuck or overwhelmed.
- Breathe and Be
Place your hand on your heart. Breathe slowly. Feel yourself settle. - Greet What’s Arising
What story are you telling yourself right now? Is it harsh, fearful, or full of doubt? Speak to it softly. - Ask From the Heart
- What is this moment trying to reveal to me?
- How might this be a turning point, not a dead end?
- What would love say right now?
- Reframe with Compassion
Find a new story that honors your experience—but invites growth. Instead of “I failed,” try “I am learning what matters.”
- Remember Your Why
Close your eyes. Call forth your deeper mission. Let it hold you steady. - One Step Forward
What is the next loving, aligned action you can take? Do that. Trust that it is enough.
Would You Like to Explore This Together?
If you’re ready to deepen your own way of seeing and move through your challenges with more clarity, calm, and confidence, I would be honored to walk beside you.

MINI PRACTICE:
A Worksheet in the Art of Seeing
You don’t need hours. Just a moment of stillness. Find a quiet space and bring your attention to the here and now.

RECOMMENDED BOOKS
The Wise Heart by Jack Kornfield
A guide to living with presence and compassion through timeless Buddhist wisdom.
A Path with Heart by Jack Kornfield
An invitation to lead a mindful, meaningful life guided by love and truth.
Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach
A powerful reminder that freedom begins with embracing ourselves as we are.
Radical Compassion by Tara Brach
Teaches how to meet life’s struggles with clarity, kindness, and the RAIN practice.

RECOMMENDED PODCAST
Building Success in Business and Love
with Kass & Mike Lazerow
In this heartfelt episode of the EO Wonder Podcast, entrepreneurial couple Kass and Mike Lazerow share their journey of building businesses, navigating challenges, and staying deeply committed to each other. From co-founding Golf.com and Buddy Media to writing their new book Shoveling Shit: A Love Story, they open up about what it truly takes to create success with purpose, partnership, and perseverance.






